Still no word from my hubby, I didn't expect any. I am almost at 3 weeks with no word. I should have just over a week till I hear from him. I really need to hear his voice right now. Yesterday was a really bad day. As the kids were walking home from school I got a call from the principal. My oldest boy got into a fight at school( he is in 5th grade) he struck a girl because she threw wood chips at him. Not only did he hit this girl but he caused a bruise on her back. So he has been suspended from school for another 3 days for the second time in a month. I have taken every thing from him except his bed and his blankets. I called on the MP's to come out and scare him lot of good that did. The male officer came out talked to my son and basically said it was ok for JT to strike the girl, because she instigated with him. As my children walked up my younger son was crying quite hard so of course I was concerned. I asked what was wrong and the group of kids that all walk home together started talking all at once. Turns out my younger boy was jumped by 2 boys on the way home from school because he was talking with his friends. The bigger of the boys punched my son in the ear approximately 8 times causing a small scratch on my sons eye from his glasses. I took him straight back to the school. The principal called the other boys mom. My son stated that he had cuffed the other child in the back of the head after the boy had hit him so now I have two suspended boys for Monday. I just don't know what to do anymore. I am not punishing my younger son because all he did was try to defend himself, but my older son is a different story. Any suggestions would be helpful.